when people think “dominant” and “submissive” are determined by their physical size
Stop automatically speaking of Doms as a he, and subs as a she. Don’t say “men” when you are talking about all Doms, or “women” when you are talking about all subs.
Not only does it dismiss other couples who are not male Dom/female sub, but it implies D/s is inherently related to gender, that people should have power over or submit to another based on how they were born. That’s sexist.
D/s is not about gender.